#NoShaveNovember - Ladies And Gents, To Grow Beards Or Not?

Happy new month, guys. This is ‪#‎NoShaveNovember‬ or Movember, where men are encouraged to grow their beards for charity and cancer awareness. The recent movement for men's health raises funds for prostate cancer, testicular cancer and mental health.

POLL - Ladies Choose One: A Broke Faithful Man or a Rich Cheater?

If these two were the only type of men available, broke and faithful or rich and a cheat, which would you choose? 

Vote as usual and let's discuss in the comments.

On the previous poll, Will You Have Sex in Public? turns out a lot of us are OK with public sex! These are the results.

Public Sex is Legal In Amsterdam and Copenhagen Parks, But Will You Do It?

So, a couple of public parks in Europe allow sex in them. The rules at the Amsterdam Vondelpark says it's totally ok to have sex in the park as long as it is in the evening or night time when children are less likely to be there. Also, you have to pick up your condoms. That is assuming you use one

The Dutch police are in full support of the legalization and are actually encouraging other parks to follow suit so as to make their work easier. They say people already do it and arresting mating couples is just too embarrassing and unnecessary.

The same as another park in Copenhagen (Denmark) with the following rules.

My Husband is Not My Soul Mate by Mary Graham - Do You Agree?

Mary Graham is a teacher and blogs about the thoughts on soul mates that a couple of lines from one of her 7th graders assignment sparked off in her head. She feels that a lot of young women are misled by the ideals of The One, Prince Charming, Soul Mates and similar romantic tropes. In a discussion I was having, someone also echoed the same sentiment, saying Mills & Boons should be banned. I'm not sure I agree with that, but Mary Graham makes a lot of sense. Read below and let's discuss. You can also vote by the right.

[Poll] Beyonce’s Little Half-Brother Is Homeless - What Would You Do?

Alexsandra Wright made earlier pleas for the public to help save her and her young son, Nixon Alexander Knowles, whom she had for Matthew Knowles, Beyonce's father, from becoming homeless. Now, they have been evicted from their home with their belongings to go into storage as they move to a shelter until further notice.

Can A Typically Traditional Nigerian Man Make A Good Husband?

We all agree Naija guys are fine, right? Some are real dream boats, tall, dark and handsome, the stuff my romance novels are made off. And they can be quite generous if they have the means and can get their way. And that's the big but if you're an educated and liberated woman who wants to find someone to love you for you, and to get married. Some husbands can get downright mean when they feel they're not getting their way from their wives. Some of the stories out there are scary.

Would You Divorce Your Spouse For Becoming Too Rich After You Met Them Poor?

Former maths teacher Tony Hawken, 57, is splitting from Xiu Li, 51, because he says he is fed up with being wealthy.The couple were catapulted into the world of the super-rich after Li's idea of building shopping centres in disused Chinese air-raid shelters earned her an estimated £1.1billion by 2011 and placed her on The Sunday Times Rich List.

Poll - Like Kim Kardashian, Will You Accept Money For a Date With A Strange Man?

Kim Kardashian was in the news for annoying an 84year old billionaire who had allegedly paid half a million dollars for her company at the opera. She accepted with the clause her momager would be there. At the event though, the old man wanted one-on-one time and went ahead to grope and fondle her. She got annoyed and left, making me think that was not part of the contract. But the old man says, it was Kim who did not stick to the "program".

Hairy or Smooth Chests on Men, Which Do You Prefer?

Men are usually more hairy than women, and I was recently telling a friend I'm not a big fan of hair on men. Everything in moderation, and if possible the men should shave off the ones they can, like the pits, and pubes. In a recent interview, actor OC Ukeje talked about being nude on film and his experience with being near naked on some promotional material for Hoodrush and the reactions to his hairy legs. He said of people's attitude to the pictures,

Who Is Your Inspiration For Being a Great Mother? Your Mom, Woman Next Door or a Celebrity?

Mothers in the UK, 86 percent of those that took part in an online poll anyway, recently said that celebrity parents were their inspiration for maintaining a good work life balance in their homes and families. The survey respondents also revealed that they believe that being a working mother helps their children learn the value of hard work and so most are, or would choose to work and therefore appreciate working celebrities.

Is it True That A Guy Can and Will Cheat On His Woman Even When He Loves Her?

Since knowing I'll be apart from my husband for a while, some people have been talking. One of the topics that come up is cheating I've been thinking, what gives? I've heard the same argument before, about how men compartmentalize sex and love and it means different things to them. I'm still not convinced, some men make mistakes, we are human and that is permitted, some are just plain disrespectful of their partners.

[POLL] Who Gets To Choose The Main First Name For Baby?

It has been a rain of babies this past week and month, all the winter activities by couples are yielding fruit, lol. I can't wait for next year when we're going to start trying again. All this baby cuteness is getting to my ovaries and they're singing for joy, lol...

Ears, Lips, Eyes - What Facial Feature is a Turn Off in a Potential Date?

Science strikes again. Supposedly men with wide faces can be selfish, worse, they can also make those who are around them and who interact with them act selfishly as well. I don't know if how men with wide faces are supposed to feel about this, and if it will mean that ladies will think twice before giving a wide-faced potential date or suitor a chance.

Should You Tell If You Or A Friend Cheats?

We're watching Mistresses, a new Summer series on ABC which deals with married people being unfaithful or single people dating married people. My opinion is that when it comes to infidelity, the best thing is to determine not to do it at all. Don't cheat, flee all temptation and any or all appearances of cheating. If you think that fine guy or woman will get you to fall, then cut it sharply.

POLL - Open or Closed Bathroom Door For Couples?

The times Atala came to visit me while we were still dating, he stayed with me. That was when I first considered the issue of open or closed bathroom doors. The doors remained closed that time, and for the first few weeks of our marriage. And then slowly, they began to open. The slide to open doors began as we had more and more showers together and it has been shifting to other activities too.

Most People Will Remain Friends With Their Ex

Our last poll indicates that majority of people will remain on friendly terms and in contact with their exes. This was the resounding result according to a sample of 130 people who responded to the question, would you remain friends with an ex? Split almost evenly, more than 70% said they would either be friends or acquaintances with their ex. About 25% were not as chill and easy about ended relationships. 4 voters were not joking at all, to them, an ex is automatically an enemy. See the breakdown below.

POLL - Should You Remain Friends With An Ex?

When you date someone, for most people, it means that you hope for the long term. But sometimes, it doesn't end that way. After the memories you've both made together, the laughter or the tears, you have to get up, dust your backside and move on. In many instances where there is a break-up discussion, and both people are trying to show they're mature and all, they decide to remain friends. Is it worth it? What would you do? Vote below and give more details in the comments too. Thanks!

POLL - Your Dream Place to Get Married?

Most of us who are already married either got married either had our traditional marriages at home, and a church or registry marriage. But what if you did not have all those expectations from your parents, family and friends? And what if you had as much money as it took to pay for any venue of your choice? Where would you get married? Fill in the poll and leave more details in the comments...

POLL - What is your Love Language?

Dr. Gary Chapman wrote a book titled The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts and it became and still is, one of the go to books for counselling couples on how to keep their relationship fresh and nurtured. The love languages go both ways, the ones you like to receive and the ones you like to give.

POLL - Can Women Have it All?

The debate about women having it all seems to always crop up at least once a year, or each time a working women has a child and then returns to work. When the working woman is a media personality like actress, Drew Barrymore, it makes news headlines which it is currently doing. But we discussed this topic over on Bukky Apampa's site last year, and these were my comments.

ALL is relative, don’t compare, be content, and relearn your attitude so you can be happy with what and where you find yourself. Michelle Obama had a top paying job before, now she is a SAHM as the FLOTUS for about 8 years. Same with Hilary Clinton who took time off when she was first lady and later ran for president, now a SOS.

It is different for everybody, some women have it all (happy and content) as SAHM, no career and they don’t want one. Some make partner at a big time lawfirm or CEO at a fortune500 either at 35 or at 65, it is all for them at different times. I could go on, but you get the idea. We are all different, and so are our decisions and options in life.